Wiley's Wisdom

Joy: From the Ground Up

A Smile Never Goes Out of Style March 31, 2013

Snow was coming down sideways for a bit today. It got incredibly dark outside and looked like it was going to rain, but instead it snowed just enough to cover the ground with a healthy layer of snow blanket diamonds in a matter of about five minutes. It was remarkable in the worst kind of way for us Wisconsinites who have been so desperately pining for the warmth of spring.2013-03-31 18.51.572013-03-31 18.51.51

I found victory in those five minutes I couldn’t help but share. Hardly anyone noticed the snow because I was the center of attention (as it should be). Joking aside, I noticed two circles around me containing a dozen sets of eyes focused entirely on me. Closest to me was a circle of my favorite little people and around them was a circle of their adult loved ones.

We were playing pickle in the middle (with me as the pickle as usual), I had just gotten the toy away for myself and was celebrating my victory. Then it hit me. In that moment I heard the most beautiful sound: a whole room of people I love laughing. Better yet, literally everyone was smiling regardless of the reality of the weather happenings outside. It wasn’t too long before a hushed sense of surprise came over the room when they saw what was happening outside, but in those few precious moments leading up to that joy was in the air.2013-03-31 18.39.44

Some may think I’m overreacting about the painfully long winter we’re having in Wisconsin. I’m not one to exaggerate the truth. I even heard a few people comment on how there is finally more green than white on the ground (which is a small spring success story for us). Then the cloudburst happened. It was brief but it was heavy.

It reminded me of those moments that seem to come out of left field and mix things up in ways we don’t always appreciate. In these challenging moments we find strength in smiles and laughter. We seek comfort from our circles of loved ones. In these moments we find sincere and lasting joy. “Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face,” as French poet Victor Hugo once said.

I don’t think it’s a coincidence that all of the pictures my mom took of me being the pickle in the middle appear to have a bright light in the background. Snow was coming down sideways for a bit this afternoon, but that didn’t keep the sun from shining in the living room where my family gathered.

 

7 Responses to “A Smile Never Goes Out of Style”

  1. Wiley you are a pickle! It seems only right that everyone in the family smiles around you. All around you.

  2. That Victor Hugo guy is BRILLIANT, and you, Wiley are a smile with legs! Sometimes, when I am working at the Veteran’s Home, Mom sees people with VERY wintery faces, slouched in their wheelchairs. Sometimes she’s reluctant to bring me to them, because they might get angry, but when we take a shot and inch over, SUNSHINE comes on their faces!! They sit up straighter and start telling us stories about their dogs and their families. We dogs are so lucky to be able to bring sun to the winter! Smile on, buddy! xoxo

    Love and licks,
    Cupcake

    • That’s so inspiring that you spend time at the veteran’s home bringing smiles to the faces of our nation’s heroes! Shine on, dear Cupcake! I am a believer that the days you least feel like doing something good for others is a day when it’s most important that you do. High paw, pal!

  3. Reblogged this on Wiley's Wisdom and commented:

    If I had a million dollars, maybe I’d buy a smile. Or maybe I wouldn’t have to, since they are all around me. 🙂


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