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I’m So Jealous May 23, 2013

I heard overheard my grandma on the phone today re-living a moment of my forever mom’s life as a little person that is too good not to share. I’m not sure who she was talking to, but my ears perked up at the mention of my mom’s name and I remained a captive audience through the end of the adorable story.

So Jealous

When my mom was a little more than three people years old, she learned she would soon become a big sister. Not knowing much about what that meant, my mom’s biggest fear was that her parents wouldn’t love her as much now that they had to share their love with another little person. She tried her best to mask these feelings, but let’s face it – toddlers aren’t the best at keeping secrets.

But as time went on, her understanding of the word that described her emotions (jealousy) was somehow painted into a much different emotional dimension. My mom heard countless conversations with people who referred to her as if she wasn’t present and actively listening to the conversation. “How is she doing with jealousy?” people asked. “Is she good at sharing?” “Is she getting jealous during all the excitement of planning and preparation?”

Nine months later, when her little sister was born, all concern vanished instantly as she was overcome with emotion. “I’m so jealous,” she said to her baby sister as she stroked her tiny little head with the sincerest look of love in her eyes. The meaning of the word was lost on her three-year-old mind, but she’d heard it so frequently throughout the course of the recent months that she confused it for another word entirely. To her, jealous didn’t mean something negative, but rather was equivalent to joy, happiness and love.

Again, the mind of a little person lights the way to a better, brighter (albeit confused) outlook on life. Optimist or otherwise, t’s no secret to the world that attention is probably one of my favorite things. So much so that I love any and every opportunity to be played with, walked, petted, cuddled with, or any similar activity that provides me the role of being center of attention.

Yet I know in my little doggie heart that someday, if I ever become a big brother to a little person in my forever home, I will be able to abdicate my proverbial attention throne and take on a new role as protector to the newest keeper of wisdom in the house. I know it might be tough at first, just like it was for my mom and her little sister, but I too hope to one day as I look down at the little person and think to myself with nothing by love in my heart how jealous I am.


16 Responses to “I’m So Jealous”

  1. I’m sure you will be the bestest big puppybrother ever! Woooowooooo! Ku

  2. Basil Says:

    So much better than typists reponse when at two and a half she was told she had a little sister. Her first words….I wanted a brother!

    • There are two of us on team “boy” in the Schmidt house, I think: myself and my forever dad. When the time comes, I know mom really wants a girl. We’ll see which team wins. 😉

  3. When you’re a protective, cuddly, loving big brother, you’ll get a whole new kind of attention, W. and your whole family will be Jealous-With-Joy. You’ve got a lot to teach a baby human. Plus they taste delicious!

    Love and licks,

    • C,
      I know in my heart your kind words are right, as usual. Do you have lots of little ones in your life? 🙂

      • No little people live at my house, W. It’s just Mom and me, here. But there are lots of them in my neighborhood, and when I visit schools and libraries in my therapy work. They taste delicious, and love to cuddle.

  4. I think you would be wonderful, Wiles 🙂

  5. I’m sure you would be a great protector – and a wonderful teacher :o)

  6. huntmode Says:

    Ah, Wiley, you already are a protector and big brother of sorts – to all of us who check in with you each and every day. Silly dog! Loved it. HuntMode & Elby

    • Oh, that is such a fabulously sweet thing to say (as usual), dear friends. I do sincerely enjoy hearing from any and every person or four-legged friend that comes to visit me on a daily basis, and you two are no exception! Lots of love to you, HuntMode and Elby!

  7. Reblogged this on Wiley's Wisdom and commented:

    A cute story on how little people talk.

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