Wiley's Wisdom

Joy: From the Ground Up

Eye of the Beholder June 29, 2014

Apparently it’s not just me. It happens to other doggies all the time regardless of breed or upbringing. It’s common regardless of whether it is a rescue dog or a pup from a breeder. Good dogs fail (and subsequently) drop out of obedience school all the time. While I figured this had to be the case, I would be lying if I said the news of this did not allow me to breatheย a measurable sigh of relief. All In the Eyes

Because I might not have a pretty piece of paper that says I graduated from puppy school. To this day, I struggle with basic commands like heel and down (I can’t help it that I get excited). But I would argue what I have is better than any of these things. I have the deepest and sincerest love in my heart. For my beloved forever people. For their families. For life. Joy. From the ground up, I have it in these things.

I was reminded of this today when I shared a special (albeit routine) glance with my beloved forever mom. We have an unspoken language of love, her and I, and it happened again today. Dear baby Carter has been doing this thing where he gets up on all fours like he’s going to crawl and then just sort of bounces there for several minutes at a time. If anything, he moves backward instead of forward. Nonetheless, it’s become somewhat of a sideshow around here lately and when it happened tonight, mom and dad dropped everything to live in the moment.

Meanwhile, I stood by watching this all unfold. I didn’t feel badly and certainly didn’t need any reassurance that I was part of the group. But I got it anyway. I stayed out of harm’s way several feet from the action but this I could not miss. She looked at me and smiled and I saw right through her eyes into her heart in that moment. She loves me as she always did.

It’s funny, I didn’t need obedience school to read my mom’s thoughts. Nor did she need the classes to communicate to me. It reminds me of the words of dog trainer Fred Jungclaus, who said “I used to look at my dog and think if you were a little smarter you could tell me what you’re thinking and he’d look at me like he was saying if you were a little smarter, I wouldn’t have to.” I don’t want to brag, but I think mom and I have it under control. I don’t need a pretty piece of paper to know this in my heart as truth.

 

8 Responses to “Eye of the Beholder”

  1. utesmile Says:

    That is beautiful to see in their looks that someone loves you. Even for human to human this is a very precious thing. Well love is, as you know, priceless. Much love to you Wiles my friend!

  2. Ha! I think that about Mom all the time. How can she not know what I’m thinking? Ugh. I wish there was a school for moms. Wait. What? Anyway, silent communication is the best. You’ve got it with your mom, and Carter looks like he’s doing some doggie mind reading, too!

    Love and licks,
    Cupcake

  3. Lyn Says:

    I know that look ๐Ÿ™‚ Cally looks at me with that cheeky look of hers and wags her tail. Sometimes silent communication says more than words.

  4. Don’t worry Mity very nearly got kicked out of training classes!

  5. Kia Says:

    Aww, that’s just lovely ๐Ÿ™‚


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