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Joy: From the Ground Up

In The Moment September 4, 2014

Usually I side with dad when mom is emotional. Lately she’s been emotional a lot, so dad and I have enjoyed us some quality time. But tonight, on the opening night of NFL football as our beloved Green Bay Packers play the Superbowl champion Seattle Seahawks, I side with my dear forever mom in all her emotional glory. At least a little bit. But mostly I’m with dad.

Eight months ago, when dear baby Carter was a limp cuddly baby noodle, mom and dad and I dressed up in support of our Packers in the one and only game they would play with all four of us present in the 2013-14 season. Carter was only five days old at the time. Packer boys

Tonight was the first game of the 2014-15 season, which I knew meant a lot to mom. Packer football is a big deal around here, and the Schmidt home is no exception. Mom has been looking forward to this day for months, the day her dear little Carter would be part of his first-ever family football game experience. Dad made dinner (which meant a lot to mom) while mom played with Carter and pre-game footage ran in the background. I could sense the enthusiasm, which made it a little bit easier to allow mom to put on the jersey I don’t particularly like to wear.

Eight months ago, we took a family photo with mom and dad and Carter and I all wrapped up in Packer gear.

Tonight it meant something to my mom to reenact the symbolism of that photo. As it becomes more and more likely that dear baby Carter may just be the only little person in the family, mom has gotten nothing but more sentimental about such things. So I guess it shouldn’t have really been a surprise to dad and I that she became passionate about somehow recreating the photo we took all of those months ago tonight.

Let’s just say it was the last thing on dad and my mind. We were much more interested in watching the game and eating the food dad made (which I may or may not have gotten plenty of sneaky scraps of). And while (at first) I definitely understood mom’s point – that she wanted to capture the moment in some way – I realized actually dad and I are right about this one.

Sometimes it is more important to live in the moment, to enjoy the present of presence, than to try to capture it in some way for future enjoyment. Please don’t misunderstand , as you can tell from the multitudes of photos of myself I’ve posted through my blog life you can certainly tell I’m not opposed to capturing the moment from time to time. But I am definitely in favor of living and being present in the present.

So while I am completely supportive of all things emotional, I’m going to stick with dad on this one. Because without living in the present, without taking in each precious moment, there are no memories to capture.

 

5 Responses to “In The Moment”

  1. Lyn Says:

    But just think Wiles, years down the track, you and your Mom and Dad and little Carter can look at those photos and say…”Wow, hasn’t Carter grown, or LOL Dad’s sure got more grey hair this year, or Mom sure still looks just as beautiful, or Wiles still looks just as handsome as ever.”

  2. “…the present of presence…” Brilliant words, Wiles. I’ll be using that one for sure. And FYI – you look very adorable in your Packers gear!

    Love and licks,
    Cupcake

    • I can’t even take credit for the phrase, dear Cupcake. It was my pal over at the blog called that exact same thing that I owe that brilliance. I haven’t heard from her in a while, which makes me a bit sad, but I always have you. Thanks again for being a special part of each day!
      Lots of love,
      Wiles

  3. Lyn Says:

    Hey Wiles, look what’s available here in Australia. LOL you can actually order them. There must be a lot of Packer fans over here. https://www.facebook.com/337036403119287/photos/a.382953638527563.1073741828.337036403119287/396861250470135/?type=1&theater


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