Wiley's Wisdom

Joy: From the Ground Up

Those Who Wait November 16, 2014

Waiting drives me crazy. I don’t care whether it’s good news or bad, just give it to me straight and give it to me now. I don’t like waiting for my people to get back from that place called work or practicing my least favorite tricks (which involve waiting and staying). Waiting is not for the dogs.

Winter has arrived around here, complete with our first measurable snowfall. I love everything about the snow and the joy it seems to surround this time of year. Excitement abounds as people start putting together plans for holiday festivities and parties and all things involving delicious food and time with loved ones. How High?

But I find this thing happens all to frequently as far as the seasons are concerned. Just as a new one starts, we find ourselves anxiously anticipating, waiting, for the next. I find this happens even more so with winter, since there are the obvious drawbacks to snow-covered roads when attempting to travel safely to one of the aforementioned festivities. People wait for spring and when spring comes they wait for summer. And so on.

While I do have an (albeit learned and carefully practiced) appreciation for patience, waiting drives me crazy. I think it’s to do with the passive nature of it almost as much as the implication that today isn’t good enough. I know the great and infamous “they” say good things come to those who wait, but I disagree. For the most part, good things come just as frequently to those who live in the moment. Who don’t wait. Who decide that today is a day to embrace rather than wish to be over just so we can be one step closer to tomorrow.

I know my mom is guilty of this all to often. She puts so much emotional energy in planning for something that when it comes it is almost a let down as it happens. Mostly because she wants it to be just so. She wants it to be perfect. And she gets so tied up in that she misses the joy in the moment.

That’s why I believe in the practice of patience, which Christian author Joyce Meyer describes well when she suggests “patience is not simply the ability to wait – it’s how we behave while we’re waiting.” I figured out today why waiting drives me so crazy. It’s because I’d rather be living.

 

 

6 Responses to “Those Who Wait”

  1. For sure, W. Waiting is a tough nut to crack. I can wait forever with Mom, but waiting by myself is torture.

    Love and licks,
    Cupcake

  2. Lyn Says:

    Waiting is the pits. I can remember when I was little, waking up every few hours on Christmas Eve to see if Santa had been. These days I have much more patience 😀 Cally doesn’t like sitting and waiting either…unless of course there’s a treat involved 😉
    With substantial snow already, it looks like you’re in for a long winter Wiles. I just hope it’s not as severe as last year.

  3. utesmile Says:

    But then Wiles, even while waiting you can enjoy the moments…and live fully with the anticipation of something great coming….

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  6. I am so sick of waiting.. grr!


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