I think it is probably one of the most frustrating things I see people experience. That says a lot given all that I observe in a day between my early morning, mid-morning, late morning, early afternoon, mid-afternoon and late afternoon naps. And it happened again today.
Mom has been in the holiday spirit even more than usual (which is saying a lot, believe me), so she’s been going against her self-imposed rule not to put up Christmas decorations before Thanksgiving. Alas, the garland is up, the stockings are hung, and various other decorations donning messages of all things holiday are sprinkled throughout my forever home. I love every bit of it, not just because of the brightness of the twinkle lights throughout the house, but because I can see straight through the twinkle in her eye to her happy heart.
All was going according to plan today when it happened. Three strings of new lights didn’t work. They were all brand new, purchased from the store today, and they simply did not light up. They were broken beyond repair. And there was a brief pause as this sank in for my forever mom and dad as they were near completion on operation holiday decoration for the day. Defeat. From the ground up, it was in the air. But not for long.
Because things don’t work sometimes. Things are broken. It is not the end of the world. First of all, they are just things. You can’t take any of it with you to heaven, so in my opinion it doesn’t really matter all that much. Beyond that, defeat has no place in a day like today. A day full of twinkle lights and Christmas carols and joy. That is what today was about.
The thing is, I understand it’s frustrating. It’s infuriating. It’s absolutely maddening when something is supposed to work and doesn’t. But that’s life. And life goes on. The question is, are you going on with it? Or are you going to let something as silly as a broken set of holiday lights bring darkness into your day? Either way, it’s up to you. But I find there is strength to be gained from these situations that is much more significant than any broken little thing.
“The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places,” as American author Ernest Hemingway put it. And I would say it is the broken places that make us who we are.
So good that you could pick your battles and move on to find joy in spite of the broken lights.
Love and licks,
I don’t think there is anything more annoying than Christmas lights that refuse to work — especially newly purchased ones. Your poor Mom, give her an extra snuggle for me.
My elderly Italian neighbour calls me over every Christmas to untangle her Christmas lights. it usually takes an hour or more, but in that time we have real Italian espresso and Italian Christmas cake. Even when things go wrong, you can make it fun while trying to fix it 😀
I agree Wiley… if your work for hours on the tree, while you yearn the moment when you light up your tree the first time and this non-working strings ruin that moment, that’s a case of: arrrgh! But fortunately all “arrgh! moments” are over soon and they can’t ruin the real spirit of the holidays… love&togetherness :o)